LOVE BEGINS AT 40
If you want to have success in this world, then your ability to make
yourself likeable will play an essential role. Find out what makes a
person likeable and you will access a very important resource for your
personal or professional success.
The truth is there are lots of things that can potentially make a
person likeable. Various people have various tastes regarding other
people, so there is a lot of leeway here.
But if you take a closer look, you will discover that there are
certain key traits that stand out. These traits make a person likeable
above all other traits, to most other people.
1. Being Positive
The people who are most likeable exude positive energy. They are
happy, content and optimistic most of the time, and this feeling is
contagious. When others interact with them or they’re simply around
them, this positive feeling gets passed on.
Basically, because they are positive, they make others be positive.
And since this is such a precious thing, it makes them very endearing as
individuals. The power of being positive cannot be understated.
2. Being Confident
Confidence is another trait that’s very appealing. When we perceive
that a person is confident, we automatically tend to like them or admire
them more, or become attracted to them if they’re a member of the
In a way, confidence suggests that you’re a capable person and
you know this. So when you convey confidence, you convey these positive
3. Liking People
We tend to like in turn the people who like us first. So it’s no
coincidence that some of the most likeable people are appreciative of
others. They’re confident, but not in a cold, arrogant way, rather in a
friendly, humble way. You’ll often hear others describing them as a pleasant person, or a
sociable person; these are typically different way to convey that this
person likes them and treats them well. It makes them feel appreciated
and they appreciate in turn.
4. Being Fun
Likeable people are fun to be around. You may have noticed this. They
joke around, they play around, they don’t take things too seriously and
they know how to have a good time, as well as help others have a good
time. And since most of us really wanna have more fun and be around people
who help us have fun, this is a very endearing trait. Just this quality
alone can increase your likability significantly.
LOVE BEGINS AT 40
As you can see, most of these top traits that make a person likeable have to do with your attitude.
Being positive, confident, fun and liking others, these are all
attitudes. Indeed, how smart you are, how rich you are, how you dress or
how you look influence to a much lesser degree how likeable you are.
So if you want to be more likeable, focus above all on developing
these attitudes. Work on your mindset, improve your image of yourself,
others and life, and become a better presence for others to have around.
They will like you tenfold more as a result.